Fall is here..to mom its just another day

well I added a video for the first time..lets see if it works...if it doesn'..well we will try next time.

i thought I added one...( new at this) but seems two...came up.

one is of her trip to the hairdresser for perm. this was about 3 months ago..doubt if we could do it now, but her hair is soooooo curly..and soft now..and grown out..she looks like a little lamb with her curls...  an amazing day..she knew she was at the beauty shop and loved it...some things never change uh?

DECORATED HER LITTLE TABLE FOR OCTOBER..SHE DOES NOTICE IT...CALLS THE TEDDY ' MY TEDDY'.  SHE STILL FEEDS HERSELF..BUT IS NOT EATING AS MUCH

SO PRETTY. THIS LONG SLEEVE IS GOOD FOR THE FALL. SO GOING THRU HER CLOTHES TO CHANGE THEM WITH THE SEASON. SHE LOVED THIS AS SOON AS I PUT IT ON HER...SHE DOES NOTICE HER CLOTHES AND HOW THEY FEEL AND SHE EVEN NOTICES CLOTHES THAT WERE HER FAVORITES LONG AGO...

LAST YEAR I GAVE AWAY ALOT OF WINTER CLOTHES BUT JUST COULDN'T PART WITH SOME OF HER FAVORITES..LUCKILY, BECAUSE...HERE SHE IS..ANOTHER SEASON AND SHE IS HERE TO ENJOY THEM.

 CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS.  ITS AN APRON.  FOR BREAST CANCER. GORGEOUS. GIVEN TO HER BY HER CAREGIVER KERSTIE. KERSTIE SAW IT AND SAID OH MOLLIE WOULD LOOK SO CUTE.  WE TOOK MOVIES OF HER OPENING AND SEEING IT, AND IF THESE VIDEOS COME OUT, I WILL SHOW THAT ONE NEXT TIME.

WHAT I FIND SO AMAZING IS HOW SHE KNOWS WHEN SOMETHING IS NEW...HOW SHE LOVES FEELING GOOD IN THE CLOTHES..AND LOVES IT WHEN YOU TELL HER HOW PRETTY SHE IS.......BECAUSE....MOST DAYS SHE DOESN'T EVEN CARE...DOESN'T EVEN LOOK UP ( AS YOU WILL SEE IN SOME PICTURES)  DOESN'T PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT YOU TELL HER AND .IS DOWNCAST MOST OF THE TIME...
BUT...ASK HER TO PLAY CARDS...PUT A NEW OUTFIT ON HER...OR FIX HER HAIR..AND SHE AWAKENS FROM THIS JOURNEY....

SO HERE IS THE 2ND VIDEO.SINCE THEY ARE DOWNLOADED I DONT' KNOW HOW TO SEE THEM AND THEN CANCEL THEM.   TOLD YOU I WAS NEW AT THIS.  BUT WILL FIND OUT!!!

I HAVE TAKEN SOOOOOOO MANY VIDEO'S OF HER WITH MY IPHONE.  I JUST TURN IT ON...AND ALOT OF TALKING ON THE AUDIO PART OF MY IPHONE...WHEN I HAVE TIME I WILL DOWNLOAD ALL OF THEM ONTO A CD AND DVD...AMAZING WHAT WE CAN HAVE OF OUR LOVED ONES.  WISH I HAD THIS WITH MY DAD!!!

YESTERDAY MOM DIDN'T KNOW ME.  CALLS OUT ALL THESE NAMES.  BUT KNOWS MY FACE.  SHE ALSO CALLS FOR  HER SISTER EDITH...BUT I HAVE PICTURES OF ALL HER CHILDREN ALL OVER HER ROOM.  I WILL GET THEM..ONE BY ONE..AND SHE DOESN'T KNOW THEM. EVEN WILL TALK TO MY SISTER CAROL AND THEN SAY ' WHO WAS THAT'?  SLOWLY BUT SURELY HER MIND IS LEAVING...SOME DAYS SHE EVEN STARTS TO CRY.  I SAY WHY ARE YOU CRYING.  SHE WILL SAY I DON'T KNOW!  I THINK EVEN THO SHE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO EXPRESS IT...DEEPLY SHE UNDERSTANDS SHE IS TIRED OF ALL THIS.

THEN. THERE ARE DAYS SHE WILL BE VERY CALM AND SAY ' JUDY, HOW CAN WE END THIS...I WANT TO GO HOME'.

MOST DAYS WE DIVERT HER ATTENTION.  SHE NOW HELPS EMPTY THE SILVERWARE IN THE DISHWASHER ( IF VIDEO WORKS I WILL SEND ONE).  SHE FOLDS TOWELS...SHE STIRS THE JELLO...SHE DUSTS SMALL ITEMS...AND SHE DOES HER FOOT EXERCISES.  WE ORCHESTRATE ALL THIS...JUST TO KEEP HER MIND BUSY...A BUSY MIND IS A QUIET MIND...BUT IT TAKES ALOT OF TIME...ATTENTION...AND SHE WOULD NOT GET THIS ONE/ONE  IN A HOME......

I FEEL EVERY SINGLE CAREGIVER WILL ALWAYS HAVE MOLLIE LOOKING OUT FOR THEM WHEN SHE IS GONE...RANDA AND LOIS HAVE BEEN WITH HER FOR A YEAR..OR MORE...THEY LOVE HER.  LOIS TOOK CARE OF HER MOM UNTIL SHE DIED 4 YEARS AGO..THEY TREAT HER LIKE THEIR OWN.

SO UNTIL NEXT TIME...IF YOU ARE ON THIS JOURNEY WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE...REMEMBER YOU WILL NEVER REGRET IT...THERE WILL BE MANY DOORS OPEN TO YOU WHEN YOU HAVE COMPLETED THESE CONFUSED BUT LOVING..HOURS!